The most difficult thing in our life is to Let go. Let go of the things, people or the relations that holds you back.
The only person responsible for your own happiness is you. You definitely can’t make everyone happy at the same time but you can make yourself happy everytime. The only thing you have to do is just surround yourself with positivity and cut out the negativity, the negative people out of your life. And obviously, You are not living your life to have their negativity in it.
Having those people in your life or just staying in touch with them at the cost of your peace is never a good option.
Your mental peace, your happiness should be at the top of your priority list. Because my friend, you are the only one who have to take care of it. No one else is going to do that for you. Maybe they could pretend to do or sometimes some people could actually care for you but until when? They’ll eventually stop doing that one day and then what?
I know that Letting go of something when we care about it is never easy, even when we know it’s damaging us. But to progress in life and become all we wish to be, we have to recognize that letting these things go is the only way to get where we need to be.
It’s definitely not easy but it’s not impossible either. You know, I have this disease of trusting people because of which i always end up hurting myself. They broke my trust..it’s their fault then why should i keep hurting myself for their mistakes? And sometimes they just don’t even realize. They realize it after some years, come back and say a simple “Sorry”. And what do they expect me to do? Forgive them? Done, they’re forgiven. Because i was never angry or upset from them. I had already forgiven them and moved on. I am not a kind of person who hold grudges. But trusting them again? Nope! Not possible. Because experiences teaches you and learning is what you have to do. I learn and i improve.
You know Things hurt. People hurt. People change. Time change. And then eventually we heal with time. We let go and we move on. But is it right?
It’s definitely fine to let go and move on. It’s life. Time is not gonna stop for anyone then why should we?
Sometimes letting go is the only option. It gives you relief. It’s the key to be happy. To be free. To know that nothing is holding you back and yes you can move on with your life. You can grow. You can be at that place where you have always wanted to be.
Each time we find ourselves in those circumstances where we know are causing damage to our own self-worth, or which are holding us back from achieving our full potential, we need to remind ourselves to be strong enough to let go, not allow ourselves to hold onto something damaging, and always believe that as long as we keep doing our best that there are going to be much better things ahead. Have faith. And just wait for better days to come!
This is Muskan.. Signing Off